Personal relationships of Michael Jackson

Michael Jackson in 1988

The personal relationships of Michael Jackson have been the subject of public and media attention for several decades. The American pop singer's introduction to sex was made when he was nine years old and a member of The Jackson 5. He and his brothers would perform at strip clubs, sharing the bill with female strippers and drag queens. The sexual adventures between his male siblings and groupies further affected Jackson's early life, as did his own experiences with female fans and prostitutes. The entertainer remained romantically unengaged until meeting his first love, the child actress Tatum O'Neal, whom he became involved with as a teenager in the 1970s. The pair eventually "cooled off" and Jackson entered into a romance with model Brooke Shields. The relationship was not a sexual one according to the model, but was a strong friendship. As Jackson and Shields grew older, the two saw each other less and subsequently lost contact in 1991.

Having first been introduced in 1974 by Elvis Presley, the pop star began dating his daughter Lisa Marie in 1993. Shortly after becoming involved with Lisa Marie, Jackson was made the subject of what would prove to be his first set of child sexual abuse accusations, with similar allegations later being made in 2003. Presley supported Jackson as he became dependent on pain medication, eventually getting him to enter drug rehabilitation. In a telephone call, the male pop star proposed marriage to Presley. She agreed and the two wed on May 26, 1994, at a private ceremony in the Dominican Republic. Married life for the couple was difficult; they had frequent disagreements. The union ended with divorce in August 1996, though Jackson and Presley remained friends.

Throughout his marriage with Presley, Jackson had a secret friendship with Debbie Rowe. The female was the assistant of the pop singer's dermatologist and had been treating the star's appearance-changing disease vitiligo since the mid-1980s. While separated but still married to Presley, Jackson impregnated Rowe but she suffered a miscarriage and lost their baby in March 1996. Following the ordeal and his first divorce being finalized, the pop star wed a pregnant Rowe on November 13, 1996, in Sydney, Australia. From the marriage, the first two of Jackson's three children were produced: son Prince Michael Jackson (born February 13, 1997) and daughter Paris Michael Katherine Jackson (born April 3, 1998). The pair divorced on October 8, 1999, with Rowe giving full custody rights of the children to Jackson. The pop star's third and final child, son Prince Michael Jackson II, was born to an unnamed surrogate mother on February 21, 2002.

Early sexual and emotional experiences

Strip clubs

Jackson's father Joseph had his sons play in strip clubs, despite the boys' strict religion

From a young age, Jackson was exposed to sex. He received mixed messages on the subject from his parents. His mother Katherine was a devout Jehovah's Witness and conveyed her thoughts clearly; lust in thought or deed was sinful and physical intimacy should be saved for marriage. In contrast to his wife, father Joseph, a steel mill worker, shunned the religion and would have The Jackson 5 perform at strip clubs and seedy bars in the earliest days of their career. He allowed nine year old Michael to watch from the wings of the stage as male audience members whistled at women who stripped until nude. In one incident, a fascinated Michael watched as an apparently big breasted female removed all but her underwear. The stripper then proceeded to reach into her bra, removing two large oranges and the wig from her head, to reveal that the person he thought was a female was not a woman at all.

While playing at Chicago's Peppermint Lounge, the brothers made use of a peephole in their dressing room, through which they had a clear view of the women's bathroom. They would take turns to voyeur the women and, as Marlon recalled, "learned everything there was to know about ladies". During other residencies, the siblings would perform Joe Tex's "Skinny Legs and All". Joseph Jackson would instruct a young Michael to make his way into the audience, crawl under tables, lift up ladies' skirts and peek at their panties as part of the performance. Though embarrassed by the task, Jackson feigned enjoyment as he knew the audience loved the routine.

Following such performances, the Jackson brothers would be tucked in bed by their oblivious mother and reminded of the virtues of being a good Jehovah's Witness. Katherine remained unaware of her sons' strip club activities for many years. Journalist J. Randy Taraborrelli reflected on Jackson's early life and noted that at such a young age, the singer may not have been psychologically equipped to fully understand any sexual stimulation he may have received from such voyeuristic events. The writer further commented that Jackson's views on sex must have been conflicted between those of his religiously strict mother and his promiscuous father.

Groupies and prostitutes

Jackson was also exposed to sex through groupies and prostitutes. As members of the increasingly successful Jackson 5, Michael's brothers Jermaine and Jackie found fame to be advantageous. As they toured the country, they had sex with many female fans. The pair's guide was their father Joseph, who would often cheat on his wife Katherine with their sons' groupies. The two brothers would bring girls back to a hotel room, where younger siblings Michael and Marlon were instructed to "play sleep". One of Jermaine's conquests recalled such an experience:

"I jumped into bed with him and he climbed on top of me. As he climaxed, he shuddered so loudly I was afraid he would wake up Michael and Marlon, who were sleeping three feet away in the next bed. Or at least I thought they were sleeping. As I was slipping out of the room, I heard Michael say to Jermaine, 'Nice job. Now, can we please get some sleep?'"

While Marlon would follow in his elder brothers' footsteps, Michael never had sex with groupies, finding his male siblings' behavior toward women disgusting. In addition to not touching groupies, Jackson reportedly never had an interest in having any type of sex as a youngster. In one alleged incident, when the pop singer was 15 years old, a male family member arranged for two prostitutes to take the young star's virginity. The females were told to "work him over", before being locked in a room with him. It remains unknown whether the prostitutes' full services were given to Jackson. His eldest sister Rebbie later stated that the event traumatized him.

Though having no desire for sex with them, Jackson often used prostitutes for conversation in his younger years. James McField, who worked with The Jackson 5, stated that the lead singer of the band often needed someone to talk with. It was at these times that women would be introduced to the singer for companionship. McField asserted that he never witnessed anything sexual, and that such females were not Jackson's type; "He liked nice girls, pure girls who appeared to have no street background."

Jackson occasionally admonished and advised the groupies and prostitutes sent to pleasure his siblings. One Jackson fan recalled being selected from the audience to meet with Jackie. Backstage, she was handed a scrap of paper with an address to the location in which they were to liaise. Michael approached her from behind and warned her that his brothers did not treat women right. Changing the subject, the female fan asked for the pop star's autograph, to which he obliged, also writing "Please, don't go". The woman ignored Michael's request and headed to the Jacksons' apartment complex, where she had sex with Jackie. Afterward, Jackie informed his conquest that they would not meet again. Ashamed and upset, the fan left the apartment in tears.

On another occasion, a prostitute was brought to Jackson's room after a concert in Madison Square Garden. There, the pop star interrogated the sex worker, asking why she was a prostitute, whether she wanted to have sex with him, and how much it would cost. The woman responded that she was a prostitute for the money, but that she would have sex with him for free because she wanted him. The prostitute then proceeded to unbutton her blouse, exposing her breasts. Apparently repulsed, Jackson turned his head and begged her to "put them back". The singer suggested that they talk instead, to which the prostitute declined; she was not there to talk. Instead, she gave Jackson her telephone number, urging him to call her when he wanted to "get off". The young musician acknowledged the prostitute as she left, stating that he would perhaps call her one day, though he never did.

First relationships

Tatum O'Neal

One of Jackson's first documented relationships was with the child actress Tatum O'Neal in the 1970s. The pair's friendship was established by the time O'Neal was 12 and Jackson was 17, and featured in gossip columns for several years after. Jackson reflected in 1982 that he and O'Neal had been engaged in a serious relationship, but because of both being busy, it had "cooled off" to the point of them remaining just friends. According to O'Neal, the two eventually lost touch after she had been unable to accompany him to the premiere of his film The Wiz (1978).

In the 2003 documentary Living With Michael Jackson, the pop star alleged that near the beginning of their relationship, the 12-year-old actress tried to seduce the then 17-year-old singer. According to Jackson, the incident happened at the Academy Award-winning actress' home, where she attempted to unbutton the teen's shirt and talked explicitly about sex. O'Neal's behavior apparently proved too much for Jackson, who became scared and covered his face, before the actress walked away. When confronted with the allegation, O'Neal claimed to have been "just as shocked as everyone else". She stated that while having respect for Jackson as an artist and a person, he had "a very vivid imagination". The actress described his statements as "inaccurate"; "at 12 years old, there was no way" she was capable "of being as mature or as sophisticated as he claimed".

O'Neal released her autobiography A Paper Life in 2004, a year after the Jackson documentary. In the book, she claimed that it was Jackson who attempted to make out with her. The actress wrote, "I was just 12 and not at all ready for a real-life encounter[...] Michael, who was sweating profusely, seemed as intimidated as I was. He jumped up nervously and said, 'Uh ... gotta go.'"

Brooke Shields

Jackson met 13-year-old model Brooke Shields in 1980 at the Academy Awards. From there, the pair enjoyed a close relationship, which Shields later claimed was entirely asexual. Speaking in 2009, the model reflected that they were close because sex was never an issue for them. She also revealed that while never formally proposing, Jackson—who described his relationship with the model as having been "romantically serious" in his 1988 autobiography Moonwalk—would often speak about the two marrying and raising adoptive children together. The suggestions were met with disapproval from Shields, who felt that such a move would have "divided [her] life too much".

As the couple's separate lives' became different, the two gradually saw each other less. At the time of Jackson's death in 2009, the pair had not seen each other for 18 years. Shields claimed that in the singer's last years "it was harder to get the right number to get through to him". Following the passing, the model spoke about Jackson at his memorial service in July 2009. Shields reminisced on their time together, stating:

"Thinking back to when we met and the many times that we spent together and whenever we were out together, there would be a caption of some kind, and the caption usually said something like 'an odd couple' or 'an unlikely pair,' but to us it was the most natural and easiest of friendships... Michael always knew he could count on me to support him or be his date and that we would have fun no matter where we were. We had a bond... Both of us needed to be adults very early, but when we were together, we were two little kids having fun."

Lisa Marie Presley

First meeting and courtship

Lisa Marie Presley was introduced to Jackson by her father Elvis

In 1974, a 16-year-old Michael Jackson—who would later be dubbed "The King of Pop"—was introduced for the first time to his future wife at the MGM Grand Hotel and Casino in Las Vegas by her father, "The King of Rock 'n' Roll", Elvis Presley. Lisa Marie was six at the time, and had been brought to the hotel to watch a show by The Jackson 5, of whom she was a big fan. The young girl was particularly fascinated by lead singer Michael Jackson and his talent at dancing.

The two would not meet again until 1993, at a private dinner held at the home of their mutual friend the artist Brett-Livingstone Strong. Knowing that Presley had been looking for help within the music industry, Strong had her play tapes for Jackson, who was impressed with the female singer's voice. The pair talked for the remainder of the night, until it was time for Jackson to leave. At this point, according to Strong, the entertainer gave Presley a penetrating look and said in a conspiratorial voice, "You and me, we could get into a lot of trouble. Think about that, girl."

In the days following this interaction, Presley and Jackson spoke on the telephone almost every day, forging a strong friendship. The two came to realize that they had much in common: both had been protected and sheltered from the real world, both felt that they had missed out on a normal childhood, both were mistrustful of outsiders having spent most of their lives feeling exploited by them. The pair both had problems with the media. Presley was raised in Graceland, while Jackson lived at Neverland. The two felt that they understood each other and were soulmates.

While dating Presley in 1993, Jackson became the subject of child sexual abuse accusations and relied on the female singer for emotional support. He would call Presley from overseas as he embarked upon the second leg of the Dangerous World Tour and the child abuse investigation intensified. During such telephone conversations, the female star attempted to reverse Jackson's sadness with humour and advice. Presley later recalled that she believed in the musician's innocence and that she could "save him". Fuelled by her past addictions and the death of her father, Presley supported Jackson as he became addicted on painkillers, urging him to settle the allegations out of court and go into rehabilitation. He subsequently did both.

Proposal and wedding

It was during one of Jackson's calls to Presley that he proposed marriage. "If I asked you to marry me, would you do it?", the singer queried. Though still married to actor Danny Keough, whom she had wed in 1988 and had two children with, Presley replied that she would. After a pause, Jackson exclaimed that he had to use the bathroom. Having apparently relieved himself, the singer explained to his new fiance that his love for her was genuine and that she had to believe him.

Following several months engaged, Jackson and Presley wed on May 26, 1994, at a ceremony in the Dominican Republic. Presley had divorced Keough only 20 days before. The 15-minute ceremony was held by Judge Hugo Francisco Alvarez Perez at his home in the La Vega Province. The union was conducted in Spanish, and translated for Presley and Jackson by an attorney. Eva Darling, Presley's friend, served as a witness along with her husband Thomas Keough, the brother of Danny. At the time of their marriage, the press and public were unaware that the two even knew each other. The wedding was kept secret from them, Jackson's family and Presley's mother Priscilla. Upon being informed of her daughter's marriage with Jackson a week later, Priscilla became irritated; she felt that the male pop singer was using her child to rehabilitate his image following the child abuse accusations. To the press, however, Priscilla stated that she was "very supportive of Lisa Marie and everything she does".

The union was met with a mixed reaction from the media when it was made public two months later. Some sources described the union of "The King of Pop" and "The Princess of Rock 'n' Roll" as being "The Marriage of the Century". One newspaper headline scoffed, "Jackson-Presley Union Sparks Shock, Doubt, Laughs." Addressing both the media and public, the new Mrs. Presley-Jackson issued a statement:

"My married name is Mrs. Lisa Marie Presley-Jackson. My marriage to Michael Jackson took place in a private ceremony outside the United States (11) weeks ago. It was not formally announced until now for several reasons; foremost being that we are both very private people living in the glare of the public media. We both wanted a private marriage ceremony without the distraction of a media circus. I am very much in love with Michael, I dedicate my life to being his wife. I understand and support him. We both look forward to raising a family and living happy, healthy lives together. We hope friends and fans will understand and respect our privacy."

Married life and disagreements

For the next year of their married life, the newly wedded couple divided their time between Jackson's 2,700-acre Neverland Ranch in Santa Ynez, California and Presley's one-acre estate, 100 miles away in Hidden Hills. Defying the initial thoughts of some of the public, Presley did not move into Jackson's home upon getting married. According to J. Randy Taraborrelli, this was due to her wanting to remain independent, as well as the singer's children (Danielle and Benjamin) finding their new stepfather "a little strange".

The pair's first television appearance together was made at the 1994 MTV Video Music Awards, in what has been described as a "memorable moment". Holding hands, the pair walked on to the stage in New York. In front of a television audience of 250 million, Jackson announced, "Just think, nobody thought this would last", before embracing Presley in a kiss. Afterward, Jackson's wife became angered at her husband, feeling that he had used her. The male pop singer reasoned that the liplock, which was dubbed "The Kiss of the Century", would be talked about for decades, with people playing the clip over and over. Jackson's attempts at placating his wife proved futile; she told the singer not to "fucking even come near me" and remained angry for several days.

In the same week, Jackson and Presley had another argument. Newspaper reports had been suggesting that if Elvis were alive, he would not approve of his daughter's marriage. Annoyed, Jackson reportedly suggested that the couple could find out by holding a séance to contact the deceased "King of Rock 'n' Roll". During the session they would ask his opinion of the union. Presley felt that the idea was tasteless and, upon Jackson continuing to push the idea, warned, "If you stay on this particular road, they're gonna need a medium to contact you in the great beyond, because I'm about to put you there, right now." The two supposedly never spoke of the incident again.

Prime Time and further marriage difficulties

Jackson and Presley appeared on the television show Primetime in June 1995. In Jackson's first interview since 1993 and Presley's first ever, Diane Sawyer quizzed the pair on their private life with, according to Jet, a series of "insensitive" questions. Presley boasted that she and Jackson had regular sex, following Sawyer questioning their sex life. When asked if the marriage was a sham, Presley asserted that such rumours were "crap"; the singer claimed that she would never marry someone for any other reason than being in love with them. She concluded that if the public thought any different, they could "eat it". The following day, Presley reflected that the interview had been a disaster; she had hoped that couple would be perceived as being serious, yet Jackson fooled around during the show, at one point holding two fingers behind his wife's head to make devil horns. Presley's friend Monica Pastelle revealed that it was at this point that the female singer began to wonder whether she had made a mistake in choosing Jackson as a long-term partner.

A further problem for the pair was Jackson's insistence on being around children. Though she never believed him to be a pedophile—"I wouldn't have let him near my kids if I thought that"—she felt that her husband was only opening himself up to more rumour and innuendo following the 1993 allegations. One evening at Neverland, Presley confronted the pop star on the issue, and was met with a defiant Jackson, resulting in another argument. Upon being called selfish, the male musician pointed to his humanitarian endeavors. Presley countered that his philanthropy was irrelevant, and that the issue was about them.

Jackson's wife also disagreed with having children by the singer. Imagining the future and what would happen if the marriage ended, Presley saw a "custody battle nightmare". In addition, she felt that her husband was too emotionally immature to be a parent, having watched his daily interactions with other people. She believed that he was the one in need of parenting. Jackson explained to his wife over breakfast one morning that she did not have to be the biological mother if she so desired. He explained, "My friend Debbie [Rowe] said she will get pregnant and have my baby. If you won't do it, then she will. How about that?" Unmoved, Presley replied that it was fine by her.

Following several more troubled months, Jackson ended up in hospital; he had collapsed while rehearsing for a concert in New York. Presley arrived to meet her ill husband and yet another heated debate ensued. The argument ended after Jackson warned her that she was making his heart rate go up and asked her to leave. She obliged, being admonished by a doctor and Jackson's mother Katherine along the way. Once Presley had left the building, she returned to Los Angeles. Upon being discharged from hospital, Jackson went to Disneyland Paris to recover. Defying his wife, the singer had at least six children accompany him.

Divorce

Presley filed for divorce in early 1996, citing "irreconcilable differences" and noting their date of separation as December 10, 1995, shortly after the incident in the hospital. The divorce was finalized on August 20, 1996. As part of the settlement, the female singer received 10% of the royalties from HIStory: Past, Present and Future, Book I, an album that contained the song "You Are Not Alone", the music video of which featured a semi-nude Presley and Jackson frolicking against an ethereal backdrop. As she did not sign a confidentiality agreement, a further clause stated that Presley could write a tell-all book about her time with Jackson. At the time, "The Princess of Rock 'n' Roll" revealed that she had no wish to write a memoir; the singer still had respect for Jackson and did not want to speak critically of him. Presley also wanted to preserve her own dignity and keep their life together private.

It's easy to be skeptical of Michael's relationship with her, but doing so risks ignoring his obvious humanity. Despite the plastic surgeries and maddening friendships with boys, and all the rest of the eccentric behavior that goes into making Michael Jackson such a strange individual, he is still a human being with emotions, feelings and a beating heart - and, somehow, Lisa Marie Presley was the one to truly touch it, to truly affect him.

J. Randy Taraborrelli, The Magic and the Madness (2004)

The divorce proved difficult for Jackson, who spent several weeks lamenting his loss. Presley was the first person with whom he had connected on such a high level. She had supported him as he faced allegations and became dependent on pain medication. It was also the first time that the pop singer had had a sexual chemistry with another. Presley was able to make him open up and express himself through their physically intimate moments together. At the time, Jackson was afraid that there would never be another that made him feel the way his ex-wife had. He eventually realized that he had to move on; he had a world tour coming up and music to work on. Jackson also knew that Presley would never make him a father, which he longed to be.

Debbie Rowe

Background and friendship

Debbie Rowe met Michael Jackson in the mid-1980s, while working as an assistant for the pop star's dermatologist Dr. Arnold Klein. Rowe treated Jackson's vitiligo, which he had been diagnosed with in 1986 and that would affect his physical appearance for the remainder of his life. Rowe supported Jackson, providing answers to the questions Jackson asked about his medical condition. The pair became good friends; the pop star frequently sent autographed merchandise to the female, who hung them on the walls of her office. According to Rowe's friend Tanya Boyd, the dermatologist's assistant would obsess over Jackson, gushing over him and his traits. She would say to her friend, "If people knew him like I knew him, they would not think he was strange. He's unique, kinky, actually."

The Jackson-Rowe friendship would remain for several years, during which time the female assistant married and divorced Richard Edelman, a man she claimed to have felt trapped to. Rowe and the musician would both talk to each other about their unhappy marriages; his with Presley and hers with Edelman, a teacher at Hollywood High School. Like Jackson's first wife, Rowe supported the entertainer as he was accused of child sexual abuse. Jackson kept his friendship with Rowe a secret from his wife, who eventually found out but thought nothing of it; she felt that the dermatologist's assistant was not her husband's type because she was not glamorous enough.

First pregnancy and miscarriage

As Presley had refused to carry Jackson's children, Rowe offered to give birth to a child for the pop singer. Shortly after the separation of Presley and Jackson, Rowe became pregnant but suffered a miscarriage in March 1996. The event devastated the woman, who feared that she would never be able to have a baby. Jackson comforted and consoled Rowe throughout the ordeal, which remained hidden from the media and public.

Second pregnancy and reaction

Jackson embarked on the first leg of his HIStory World Tour on September 1996. One month into the tour and several months after the divorce from Presley, Jackson's personal life made headlines as it was revealed that Debbie Rowe was pregnant with his child. One tabloid newspaper, the News of the World, told the story under the headline "I'm Having Jacko's Baby". Rowe reacted furiously to the publication, labelling the editorial staff "bastards" and complaining that they reported the story as if she and Jackson were freaks. J. Randy Taraborrelli later noted that the article, which had been put together from a secret tape recording between Rowe and a friend, had been fairly accurate. It detailed that Jackson was the father of the baby and that he would be raising the child alone. It also stated that Jackson impregnated Rowe artificially with his own sperm cells, a "foolproof" method of insemination. Further reports alleged that the relationship was an "economic" one; she was in it for the money and he sought a baby.

In a statement, Jackson condemned the accusations of being in an economic relationship and using artificial insemination as "completely false and irresponsible". Despite the denials, it was noted that Rowe had received millions of dollars from Jackson as "gifts" over the years. Among court papers filed against Jackson in 2002 by business manager Myung Ho Lee, a monthly budget for Jackson was detailed and included a $1.5 million payment to Rowe. The pop musician later bought the female a $1.3 million home in 1997; he and Rowe never lived together.

When the news of Rowe's pregnancy broke to Jackson's mother Katherine, the Jackson family matriarch urged her son to wed the mother of his unborn child. Katherine did not want her son to be like his father, who had produced an illegitimate child with a woman while married to Michael's mother. Katherine first spoke on the telephone to Rowe about the sanctity of marriage and about the Jehovah's Witness faith. She later spoke to Jackson, telling him to marry "that nice girl, Debbie" and "give your child a name, not like your poor, half-sister, Joh'Vonnie". The words resonated with the musician, who did not want to repeat his father's sins.

Prior to Katherine's words, the view had been for Rowe to act as a surrogate mother; she would give the baby to Jackson as a friendly favour and he would raise it. Jackson intended to issue a statement following the birth that the identity of the mother was a secret, in the same way that the identities of many surrogates are protected. Katherine's involvement, however, influenced Jackson to call Rowe and ask her to meet him in Australia, where he was staying, as soon as she could. There, the entertainer announced his plans for them to wed the very next day.

Wedding

A man stands to the left of a woman who is smiling. He wears a black military jacket, under which is a white T shirt. Atop his head is a black fedora. His left hand holds the right of the woman's. Both hands are pressed against the stomach of the woman, who is dressed in black.

Michael Jackson and Debbie Rowe on their wedding day

Jackson and Rowe wed on November 13, 1996, at the Sheraton on the Park Hotel in Sydney, Australia. The night before the wedding, Jackson had called Presley, who gave him and Rowe her blessing. In front of 15 friends, the pair exchanged vows at the hotel in Australia's largest city. An 8-year-old boy called Anthony, whom Jackson stated was his nephew, served as the best man during the ceremony. For the occasion, Jackson had put special effort into his appearance. J. Randy Taraborrelli wrote in his book Michael Jackson - The Magic and the Madness:

"Michael had on a creamy foundation and transparent powder that made his face almost stark white. He had extra eyeliner on his lids, emphasizing their almond shape; his eyes stood out like dark coals. He highlighted his nose and cheekbones with bronze tones. His eyebrows were tweezed and darkened. He had on a black hat and one long curl framing each side of his face. Also, he appeared to have fake sideburns. The total effect was nothing short of jaw-dropping, in that Disneyland sort of way."

Media and public reaction to the marriage was negative and cynical. Some commentators felt that Jackson was marrying a person he did not love, and that Rowe was having a baby that may or may not have been biologically Jackson's. The Daily Mirror, a British tabloid newspaper, published a photograph of Rowe on the balcony of an Australian hotel. In it, she is seen holding her head in her hands. One Jackson biographer stated that the woman's dismayed and exasperated pose was most probably due to the excessive presence of paparazzi below. The Daily Mirror, however, ran the photograph while mockingly proclaiming, "Oh, God! I've Just Married Michael Jackson."

Birth of Prince Michael

Jackson and Rowe's first child together, Michael Joseph Jackson Jr. (also known as "Prince Michael"), was born on February 13, 1997, at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center in Los Angeles, California. The baby was named after Michael's grandfather and great-grandfather, who were both called Prince. After Rowe and Jackson cut the baby's umbilical cord together, Prince was taken to intensive care, where he spent five hours with only minor problems. He was subsequently taken by his father to Neverland Ranch. Prince's mother recuperated at a friend's house upon her release from hospital.

Six weeks after the birth, Rowe saw her son for the first time since his arrival into the world. She had met with Jackson to pose for photographs with their newborn son at a hotel. Upon arriving, Rowe was ushered into the hotel room, where she was given the infant to hold and told to smile for the camera with Michael. Afterward, she was sent on her way. Rowe did not want to become too attached to Prince, as she felt it would make her situation harder to deal with. At Neverland, Prince was cared for by a team of six nannies and six nurses during his first few months. According to one nanny who worked at the Californian ranch, Prince Michael's mother was not a significant presence in the child's early life. "I saw her maybe three times and she seemed very sullen."

Third pregnancy and birth of Paris

Rowe announced that she was pregnant with Jackson's second child in November 1997. The baby was to be a girl and named Paris, after the French city in which her parents said she was conceived. On April 3, 1998, Paris-Michael Katherine Jackson was born. Her middle names come from her grandmother and father. Jackson later claimed that he was so anxious following the birth of his daughter, that he "snatched" her and ran straight home "with all the placenta and everything all over her". Rowe later confirmed that Jackson had the placenta frozen. Following the birth, Jackson's associates contacted the Pope at the Vatican in Rome, in the hope that The Pontiff would personally baptise the pop star's daughter. An official for the Pope informed Jackson by letter that the leader of the Catholic Church would not participate in what may be perceived as a publicity stunt.

Divorce

Feeling uncomfortable with their arrangement, Rowe asked Jackson for a divorce, which he granted without fuss on October 8, 1999. Rowe received around $10 million in a settlement, which started with an immediate payment of $1.5 million. With the divorce, Rowe gave Jackson full custody rights to their children. At the time, both Rowe and Jackson requested privacy and asked the public not to speculate on the reasons for their divorce. They concluded that despite coming to the end of married life, they would continue to remain friends.

Aftermath

Michael Jackson with his three children in 2006. The eldest two were borne by Debbie Rowe.

Following the divorce, Jackson would go on to have a third child. Prince Michael II was born on February 21, 2002, to an unnamed surrogate mother. Rowe denied being the biological mother of Prince Michael II, who is nicknamed "Blanket". Jackson stated that the baby was produced through artificial insemination using his own sperm cells. He further claimed that he did not know the mother, and she did not know him. The pop star added that in asking for a surrogate mother, he did not care what race she was. The only thing that mattered to him was that she had intelligence, health and good eyesight.

In the television documentary The Michael Jackson Interview: The Footage You Were Never Meant to See, a rebuttal video to Martin Bashir's 2003 Living with Michael Jackson interview, Rowe attempted to explain her relationship with Jackson and their two children:

"My kids don't call me Mom because I don't want them to. They're Michael's children. It's not that they are not my children, but I had them because I wanted him to be a father. People make remarks, 'I can't believe she left her children.' Left them? I left my children? I did not leave my children. My children are with their father, where they are supposed to be. I didn't do it to be a mother... If he called me tonight and said let's have five more [children], I'd do it in a heartbeat."

In 2006, Rowe legally applied for her access to her two children to be reinstated and subsequently reached an agreement with Jackson. Following the singer's death in 2009, his mother Katherine was made the permanent guardian of Prince Michael, Paris and their half-brother Prince Michael II. In addition, a new custody arrangement was made with Rowe, who has visitation rights with her two children and will continue to receive spousal support payments.

Questions have frequently arose as to whether Jackson was the biological father of his three children. Doubts first surfaced after it was reported that the African American musician's son Prince had "light skin". Jackson insisted in 2003 that the children were biologically his.

Allegations regarding sexuality

Further information: 1993 child sexual abuse accusations against Michael Jackson and People v. Jackson

Despite his relationships with women, Jackson's sexuality was the subject of speculation and controversy for decades. The pop singer faced allegations of being homosexual since he was a teenager, as well as later being labelled asexual. One 1970s newspaper story alleged that the then 19-year-old singer was to have a sex change operation and marry the songwriter Clifton Davis. Jackson found out about the story from a crying fan. The musician reassured the girl that the tale was untrue and condemned it a "stupid rumour". The story circulated for many months, during which time Jackson became upset; he was raised in a family where homosexuality was considered sinful. Jackson would continue to deny being homosexual throughout his life. In a 1979 interview, the pop star stated that he was not gay and that he would not "have a nervous breakdown because people think I like having sex with men". He added that if he let the rumour affect him, it would make him cheap. He expressed that many of his fans may be gay, and that he did not mind that. "That's their life and this is mine."

In 1993, Jackson was accused of child sexual abuse by Evan Chandler, on behalf of his then-13-year-old child, Jordan Chandler. To the father's disapproval and concern, his son had become friends with the musician in May 1992. Under the influence of a controversial sedative administered by Evan Chandler, a dentist, his son said that Jackson had touched his penis. Evan Chandler was tape-recorded threatening to damage the singer's music career, and engaged Jackson in unsuccessful negotiations to resolve the issue with a financial settlement. Jordan Chandler then told a psychiatrist and later police that he and Jackson had engaged in acts of kissing, masturbation and oral sex. Jackson settled a civil suit out of court with the Chandler family and their legal team for $22 million in January 1994. After Jordan Chandler refused to testify in the criminal proceedings, the state closed its criminal investigation citing lack of evidence, and Jackson was not charged with a crime.

Further accusations of child sexual abuse were made in 2003, by 13-year-old Gavin Arvizo. The allegations came after Jackson and the boy appeared in the documentary Living With Michael Jackson, in which the entertainer stated that he shared his bed with children in a non-sexual fashion. The musician was subsequently indicted on four counts of molesting a minor, four counts of intoxicating a minor, one count of abduction, and one count of conspiring to hold the boy and his family captive at Neverland Ranch. During the five month trial, Jackson faced allegations of child molestation and assertions that he had attempted to abduct the Arvizo family in a hot air balloon. He denied all the charges and family members proclaimed that he was the victim of an extortion attempt. One friend, Firpo Carr, expressed amazement at the allegations leveled against the singer, who at the time was living at Neverland Ranch. "I'm surprised they haven't accused him of bestiality because he also has a zoo there. I mean, it gets ridiculous after a while." On June 13, 2005, the jury found Jackson not guilty on all charges.

Accusations of Homosexuality Former dermatologist’s assistant Jason Pfeiffer alleges he began a “passionate and sexual” affair with the Thriller singer after meeting him in 2008 at the office of Michael’s skincare expert, [klein].

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