Men's rights movement in India

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The men's rights movement in India is associated with various men's rights organizations. They demand gender neutral laws and repeal of laws that they consider anti-men.



The Indian men's rights movement was started by Ram Prakash Chugh, a Supreme Court advocate, in Delhi in 1988 to handle false cases of dowry and torture. It was called Crime against Man Cell also known as Society for Prevention of Cruelty to Husbands.[1][2] Chugh himself faced problems in his marriage.[3] In 1996, Purush Hakka Sanrakshan Samiti was formed by Balasaheb Patil to help husbands falsely imprisoned in dowry cases and to help avoid divorces by counseling couples.[4] Sangyabalya, a helpline for husbands and families harassed by anti-dowry laws, was started in June 2003 by Arun Murthy in Bangalore. He started the helpline after his sister-in-law filed a dowry harassment case against his younger brother and his entire family was implicated.[5][6]

Save Indian Family was founded on 9 March 2005 by the unification of a number of family's rights organizations across India.[7] On 19 November 2007, Save Indian Family Foundation (SIFF) observed International Men's Day for the first time in India.[8][9]


On 25 June 2009, the Ministry of Women and Child Development agreed to meet men activists to listen to their grievances. The agenda of the meeting was changed a day before to exhort men to stand up against exploitation of women. The activists opposed the change and called the meeting a "sham". A week later, the ministry said that they received a large number of complaints, many of which appeared to be legitimate. They said that they may consider reviewing the marital laws but were reluctant to change them in a way that would weaken their implementation for women.[10]

In 2007, The Association for Protection of Men-Tamilnadu was founded. It drew attention to what it alleged were several issues and laws created against men, especially in relation to false dowry cases and women claiming exorbitant maintenance through their use of the Domestic Violence Act, 2005.

In September 2008, Save Family Foundation sent a complaint against a Kitply plywood commercial to the Advertising Standards Council of India. The ad showed a wife slapping her husband on her wedding day because of a creaking bed. The complaint alleged that the ad promoted violence against men by portraying it as funny. Swarup Sarkar of Save Indian Family said that violence against women draws strong reactions, but violence against men on public television is ignored. In the same month, Suresh Ram of Chennai-based organization Indiya Kudumba Pathukappu Iyaakam, complained against a Pond's ad which portrayed men as wife-beaters and an ICICI Prudential Insurance commercial which portrayed verbal and economical abuse against men.[11]

In 2009, Child's Right and Family Welfare was formed to demand fairer laws for men, including better child custody and access laws.[12] In April 2010, Pakistani cricketer Shoaib Malik was accused of cheating by a woman from Hyderabad (India), Ayesha Siddiqui, just prior to his marriage to tennis player Sania Mirza. SIFF released a statement in support of Malik and demanding that his passport be returned. It added its concerns over such misuses of Section 498A of the Indian Penal Code.[13][14]

On 19 November 2010, the Bangalore chapter of National Coalition for Men, a US-based men's rights organization, organised an event called "Save The Male". Issues like father's rights, false dowry cases, high suicide rate among men and domestic violence were discussed.[15] In December 2012, about 15,000 men boycotted Aamir Khan's then recent film Talaash. According to Anil Kumar, one of the founders of SIFF, Aamir Khan portrayed men negatively on his television show, Satyamev Jayate. He claimed that the show provided only one side of the domestic violence issue.[16]

In 2012, The Association for Protection of Men-Tamilnadu arranged a continuous protest against the actress Sona Heyden, who it believed had been derogatory towards men when she allegedly said that men are all tissue paper to her. Heyden denied saying such a thing.


In September 2012, the Ministry of Women and Child Development proposed a bill that would make it mandatory for husbands to pay a salary to their wives. This move was criticized by men's rights groups, including Shonee Kapoor of Sahodar Trust, who called it a bad idea. Sahodar Trust provides legal aid to men in divorce and family law cases.[17]

On 25 August 2013, Hridaya, a Kolkata based NGO raised concerns about the proposed Marriage Laws (Amendment Bill), 2010[18] (IrBM) which had been has been approved by the cabinet and cleared by Group of Ministers (GoM) headed by defence minister A. K. Antony. According to Amartya Talukdar, the bill, which introduces the concept of no-fault divorce and marital property is not fair for men. It will put the institution of marriage in jeopardy.[19]

On 21 December 2013, members of National Coalition for Men held a demonstration outside the offices of West Bengal Human Rights Commission (WBHRC) in Kolkata, stating that former Supreme Court judge Asok Kumar Ganguly, and then chairman of WBHRC, was innocent until proven guilty. Ganguly had been accused of sexual harassment by a law intern. Amit Gupta, General Secretary of National Coalition for Men, said that even if the legal system of India and the UN Charter on Human Rights states that an accused is to be treated as innocent until proven guilty, Ganguly was being held as guilty and subjected to a media trial.[20]

2014: The Men-ifesto[edit]

On 11 January 2014, National Coalition for Men in Kolkata asked all political parties in India to include the formation of a men's ministry and a men's rights panel in their manifestos. They also released their own manifesto called "Men-ifesto" which dealt with the issues of men and the need of provisions from the government to address those issues. The demands raised were gender neutral laws, rehabilitation of men who were acquitted, speedy trials of the accused languishing in custody, and equal rights in child custody. The National Coalition for Men also said that they would meet political parties across India to urge them to include men's rights in their manifestos.[21] Amit Gupta said that they may start their own political party if their demands are ignored.[22]

On 16 February 2014 the members of Hridaya, a Kolkata-based organisation protested against the Marriage Laws Amendment Bill (India) that would introduce no fault divorce in the Hindu Marriage Act by wearing saris. Amartya Talukdar voiced concern and said the that if the government really intends to empower women, then the law should be made applicable to all communities by bringing uniform civil code instead of being applicable only to Hindus.[23]

In March 2014, SIFF criticised the second season of Aamir Khan's TV show, Satyamev Jayate. They said that the Aamir Khan quoted the domestic violence data from the National Family Health Survey, which surveyed only women from 15 to 49 age. They said the show gave the perception that men do not suffer from domestic violence.[24]

On 28 March 2014, Amit Gupta urged voters across the country to exercise the "None of the above" (NOTA) in the 2014 general elections. According to him, no political party was paying heed to their demands of gender neutral laws and a Ministry of Men’s Welfare.[25]

In early April 2014, Save Indian Family Foundation (SIFF) sent out four queries regarding men's issues to various political leaders. Anil Kumar of SIFF said that they would decide which party to vote for in the 2014 election based on the responses. He added that a survey of SIFF members had indicated a lack of support for the Congress party and the Communist Party of India (Marxist). The four questions that were posed are whether the party would introduce a bill to protect men against domestic violence, whether biological fathers should be given partial custody in a shared parenting arrangement in divorces, whether consensual sex with the false promise of marriage should be considered rape and if a man should be considered a rapist for breaking up with his girlfriend, and whether the party would introduce men studies courses in universities similar to other gender studies courses.[26]

On 16 April 2014, men's right groups asked supporters to vote for Samajwadi Party or use "None of the above" (NOTA). Amit Lakhani, an activist of Save Family Foundation based in New Delhi, expressed support for Samajwadi Party by saying that only that political party had included men's issues in their manifesto.[27]

In May 2014, Save Indian Family Foundation (SIFF) and INSAAF (Indian Social Awareness and Activism Forum) demanded inclusion of men's issues in the National Family Health Survey (NFHS) conducted by the Ministry of Health and Family Welfare.[28] Also in May 2014, Save Indian Family Foundation (SIFF) launched a mobile app called SIF One to reach out to men in distress.[29] In the same month, an all India telephone helpline was launched.[30]



Marital Status of Suicide Victims in 2013 [31]
Martial status Male Female
Never married 21062 10766
Married 64098 29491
Widowed/Widower 2695 2311
Divorced 739 678
Separated 1949 1010

Save Indian Family Foundation (SIFF) has claimed that the suicide rate of married men is almost twice that of women, due to them being "unable to withstand verbal, emotional, economic and physical abuse" from their wives.[32] SIFF has pointed to the National Crime Records Bureau (NCRB) data to show that suicide in married men is much higher than in married women.[30]

Mithun Kumar, a researcher at SIFF, has said that police don't take any action even if the suicide note of a man states that he was tortured by his wife and in-laws, but in case of a woman's suicide her husband's family is taken into custody without investigation.[30]

In July 2014, Kumar V. Jahgirdar, president of Child Rights Initiative for Shared Parenting (CRISP), attributed the suicides among married men on family stress. CRISP said that in study conducted by it, it was found that married men committed suicide mainly due to misuse of Section 498A of the Indian Penal Code (IPC) and the Domestic Violence Act of 2005. Swarup Sarkar, founder of SIFF, pointed that there is no legal provision for married men facing verbal or mental abuse.[33]

Domestic violence[edit]

In January 2014, of 224 domestic violence complaints filed in Jabalpur, Madhya Pradesh, 160 were filed by husbands. Also, Jabalpur, Amarkantak and Hoshangabad region have a significant number of sadhus who have left their marriage. About 4,500 husbands are missing from family court records in the region.[34]

Ram Prakash Chugh has stated that many times husbands don't report being attacked by their wives with household utensils because of their ego.[2] Swarup Sarkar of Save Indian Family has said that there is no evidence to prove that the domestic violence faced by men is less than that faced by women.[35]

Indian Social Awareness and Activism Forum (INSAAF) and Confidare Research have drafted a bill which aims to protect men and boys from domestic violence from their spouse, girlfriends and parents. The bill is called Saving Men from Intimate Terror Act (SMITA) and the groups aim to introduce in for debate in the parliament.[36]

False rape cases[edit]

Atit Rajpara, co-founder of Men’s Rights Association, has pointed to the low conviction rate in rape cases and argued that most of them are false.[37] Amit Deshpande of Save India Family Foundation has said that several presentations were made to the Justice Verma Committee to include a misuse clause to prevent false cases, but the request were ignored.[38]

In November 2013, the Police Commissioner of Mumbai Satya Pal Singh said that the low conviction rate in rape cases is due to false complaints and witnesses turning hostile mid-trial. He said that the police should not be held responsible for this.[39]

On 29 July 2014, The Hindu newspaper reported that it had carried out a 6 month investigation in New Delhi. The report said that two-third of the total cases filed in the preceding year involved consenting couples, with the parents accusing the boy of rape. According to the National Crime Records Bureau, 1636 FIRs were filed in New Delhi in 2013. In the same, 583 cases came before New Delhi's six district courts. In 123 cases, the complaint did not appear before the court or turned hostile. 460 cases were fully argued in the courts. 174 cases involved eloped couples or allegedly eloped couples. 109 cases involved breach of promise of marriage. 133 cases resulted in conviction with a conviction rate of 23%.[40]

On 6 August 2014, the Chief Minister of Tamil Nadu, Jayalalithaa, during a debate in the state assembly said that of the 953 cases were registered as rape cases, only 332 cases were found to be actual rape cases. 425 of them were filed after an affair on mutual consent ended on bad terms and 83 were filed when the man refused to marry the woman. 53 were cases of molestation which had been exaggerated.[41][42]

In October 2014, Delhi Commission of Women (DCW) released some data, according to which of the 2,753 complaints of rape filed between April 2013 and July 2014, 1,287 cases were found to be genuine. The main motivation behind the false cases was found to be revenge to settle personal scores.[43][44]

Notable verdicts[edit]

In August 2010, the Delhi High Court dropped a rape case against a London-based expatiate. The court concluded that the case was filed by his live-in partner to prevent him from leaving the country, after he refused to marry her.[45]

On 16 November 2010, the Delhi High Court rejected a man's request to drop a false rape case against him. The court said that it was to ensure the accuser, a female police employee, is prosecuted for the false case. The women had reached an out-of-court settlement with the defendant.[46]

In May 2013, the Delhi High Court said that some women were using false rape cases for personal vendetta, harassment, extortion and forcing men to marry them. The court was hearing the bail petition of a man who had been in a relationship with an woman for 2 years. The woman filed a rape case the man rejected the proposal to marry her. The court granted the bail.[47]

In May 2013, the Supreme Court of India said that pre-marital sex on the promise of marriage is cheating or deception, not rape. The court was appealing of a man had been sentenced by a lower court in Haryana to seven years of imprisonment. The man had been accused of rape by a women after he did marry her after having an affair with her. The verdict had also been upheld by the Punjab and Haryana High Court. The Supreme Court said that the women 19 years old at the time of affair was sufficiently mature to understand the implications of her consent and order the release of the man. The man had already served 3 years by this time.[48]

In August 2013, the Bombay High Court observed filing a rape case after a relationship terminated had become a trend. It added that women filing such false cases should be prosecuted. The court was hearing a bail petition from a man who entered a relation with a woman whom he met on the internet. The woman filed a rape case when he married some other woman instead of her. The court approved the bail.[49]

In December 2014, the Bombay High Court said that having sex while in relation before marriage and then not following through on a promise to marry does not amount to rape. The Court said that every individual case should be examined to see the women consciously made such a decision and there should be no single rule of thumb. The Court was hearing a case in which a woman had become pregnant after a sexual relationship and the man had refused to marry her. The Court said it was the woman's decision to keep the baby if she chooses and she may secure the child's rights by other legal means.[50]

In March 2015, the Gujarat High Court said that a breach of promise to marry is not rape case. The court was hearing a case where a woman had charged her live-in partner of rape after he left her after a year without marrying her. She filed a report when she finds out he was marry someone else.[51][52]

In March 2015, the Delhi High Court said that live-in relationships cannot be kept outside the ambit of the rape laws. The court was listening to a Public Interest Litigation that proposed that only cases of cheating should be allowed in case of live-in relations. The petitioner had pointed out that majority of cases result in acquittal.[53]

Discriminatory laws[edit]

Swarup Sarkar of Save Indian Family has stated that these laws assume that women are always truthful, and hence they don't place much importance on evidence.[32]

“This is nothing but terrorist activity by women’s organisations,” said Swarup Sarkar, a member of the foundation, which has also been protesting against the anti-dowry law saying it is heavily misused.[54]

Anti-dowry laws[edit]

Main article: Dowry law in India

The Section 498A of the Indian Penal Code which deals with cruelty to a wife states that:

Whoever, being the husband or the relative of the husband of a woman, subjects such woman to cruelty shall be punished with imprisonment for a term which may extend to three years and shall also be liable to fine.

For the purposes of this section, "cruelty" means:
(a) any wilful conduct which is of such a nature as is likely to drive the woman to commit suicide or to cause grave injury or danger to life, limb or health (whether mental or physical) of the woman; or
(b) harassment of the woman where such harassment is with a view to coercing her or any person related to her to meet any unlawful demand for any property or valuable security or is on account of failure by her or any person related to her to meet such demand.[55]

The Section 498a of the Indian Penal Code allows the police to arrest the persons mentioned in the complaint without a warrant or without any investigation.[56] The crime is non-bailable, so chances of getting a bail are low and husbands usually lose their jobs. There is no provision of withdrawing a complaint in case of a reconciliation.[57] Of all complaints filed under this law, the police finds 9% to be false or under the wrong law.[58] Of the cases that go to trial, only 15% result in conviction.[59]

According to Ram Prakash Chugh, about 87% of the women in Tihar jail are there due to dowry charges. He has claimed that sometimes mothers of the bride bring dowry charges on their in-laws when the bride fails to adjust to her in-laws.[2] Organisations like All India Mother-in-Law Protection Forum (AIMPF) and Mothers And Sisters of Husbands Against Abuse of Law (MASHAAL) have been formed to represent such women.[60][61] According to Sunil Gupta, a spokesperson for Tihar Jail, there 280 in-laws in the prison accused of dowry harassment and most of them are women. The women are held in a separate section of the prison, which has been nicknamed Saas-Nanand (mother-in-law and sister-in-law) barrack.[62]

According to SIFF, these laws don't follow conventional legal premises where a person is innocent until proven guilty. It has also pointed out that several of those who are arrested under this law are women themselves, i.e., female relatives of husbands.[63] According to Swarup Sarkar, spokesman of SIF, men with low incomes are rarely targeted and most victims of misuse are well-off.[64] Former justice of Delhi High Court Shiv Narayan Dhingra has admitted that this law is being used by women to harass their husbands and in-laws. He has opined that parents should not go through with a marriage if dowry is being demanded of them.[65]

According to Ponappa, a Men’s Rights activist from Mysore, and Kumar Jahgirdar, president of the Children’s Rights Initiative for Shared Parenting (CRISP), a non-governmental organisation, a married man commits suicide every nine minutes in India due to the alleged misuse of Section 498a of the Indian Penal Code against them.[66]

Some non-resident Indians (NRI) have also demanded amendments to the anti-dowry law. Anindya Chatterjee, a California-based IT worker who runs an online support group, was accused under the law. He has said that sometimes while visiting India, men are accused under the law and get arrested by police without verifying if the case is genuine and their passports are seized. The cases often take a year to clear up, as a result the men lose their jobs abroad due to frequent travels to attend the court or being unable to leave India.[67] Canada[68] and United States[69] have issued travel advisories warning of India's anti-dowry law misuses in the past.

Notable verdicts and legal panel reports[edit]

In November 2003, the Committee on Reforms in the Criminal Justice System (CRCJS), headed by V. S. Malimath, recommended that Section 498a be made bailable and compoundable.[57][70]

In July 2005, the Supreme Court admitted that in many instances complaints under the Section 498a of the Indian Penal Code are not bona fide and have oblique motives. The court added that acquittal in such cases doesn't erase the suffering the defendant has to go through, which is compounded by adverse media coverage. The court also directed the legislature to find ways to check such false cases.[71]

In August 2010, the Supreme Court directed the government to amend Section 498a of the Indian Penal Code in view of the rising numbers of false or exaggerated complaints against husbands and their relatives by women. It further added that such complaints result in the husband and his relatives remaining in custody until trial or bail, which kills all chances of an amicable settlement.[72]

In January 2012, the Law Commission of India recommended that Section 498a should be made a compoundable offense. But, the court will decide if the particular case is compoundable or not.[73]

On 2 July 2014, the Supreme Court said that this law is being used by some women to harass their husband and in-laws. The court prohibited the police from making arrests on the mere basis of a complaint. The court asked the police to follow Section 41 of the Code of Criminal Procedure, 1973, which provides a 9 point checklist on which must to used to decide the need for an arrest. The court also said that a magistrate must decide whether an arrested accused is needed to be kept under further detention.[59][74] The decision was in response to a Special Leave Petition (SPL) filed by one Arnesh Kumar challenging his arrest and of his family under this law.[75][76] The decision was welcomed by men's right activists but was criticized by women rights activists.[77] However, due to lack of communication to police stations, the guidelines of Supreme Court of India are still not getting followed.[78]

In 2014, the National Commission for Women had proposed some changes to the law. But, the suggestions were rejected by the Ministry of Women and Child Development. The Minister for Women, Maneka Gandhi, told the Lok Sabha in December, "The NCW had recommended certain amendments in Dowry Prohibition Act. However, the ministry has taken a considered view on the matter and decided to drop the amendment proposed by NCW in the present form after taking into account the comments of the high level committee on the status of women and the ministry of home affairs". Ranjana Kumari from the Centre for Social Research welcomed this decision.[79]

Proposed amendments[edit]

In March 2015, it was reported that Government of India was planning to amendment the Section 498A. It would be made compoundable which would allow the parties to settle if the court recommends it. The fine for filing a false case would increased from 1,000 to 15,000.[80]

Amit Gupta, of National Coalition for Men, has opposed making the law compoundable. He has said that it would make extortion easier. He has pointed out after Andhra Pradesh made it compoundable, the number of case rose by 150% and conviction rate fell by 400%.[81]

Divorce laws, alimony and child support[edit]

Under the Evidence Act, 1872, if a child is born within a marriage or within 280 days of dissolution of a marriage, then the child is considered legitimate and is entitled to child support and inheritance.[82] At present, DNA paternity tests do not take precedence over this law. The courts may still choose to ignore the genetic evidence and ask a non-biological parent to pay for child support.[83]

Notable verdicts[edit]

In April 2003, the Supreme Court of India granted a woman divorce on the grounds of mental cruelty. She had claimed that her husband was harassing her and accusing her of affairs. Although four or five out of ten divorce cases in India allege mental agony, Ram Prakash Chugh said that if a man brought similar charges to a court, he will be unlikely to get a favourable ruling.[84]

In September 2008, the Delhi High Court in a verdict said that a woman earning sufficient income is not entitled to maintenance from her divorced husband. The verdict came after a man challenged a family court's decision to grant 7,500 monthly alimony to his wife. The man had pointed out that his wife was earning 80,000 for month and had no other responsibilities.[85]

In September 2010, the Delhi High Court released a verdict that a man cannot be forced to pay alimony if he is unemployed. The man had challenged a lower court's order that he should pay 5,000 as alimony. The man pointed out that he was an expatiate working as a sales manager in Angola and had come to India to marry. He got married in May 2007 but the marriage lasted only three weeks. Due to his wife's complaint, the police seized his passport and he was unable to return to job, which resulted in his termination. The court stated that wife was equally qualified to her husband, and was working in a multi-national company, thus she cannot claim alimony.[86]

In September 2010, the Delhi High Court said that a man's assets should be examined while deciding the alimony sum. The court was deciding a case where man initially asked to pay 15,000 in total as alimony per month by a lower. After an appeal from his wife, he was asked to pay 45,000 by another court which took into consideration his net assets. The man had challenged this decision by pointing out his monthly salary was 41,000. The court reduced the alimony sum to 20,000 per and stated that a man's parents and sibling also have a stake in his assets.[87]

In October 2010, Supreme Court of India passed a judgment according to which long-term live-in relationships will be considered as marriage. The female spouse then can claim alimony under the Domestic Violence Act 2005 which uses the phrase "relationship in the nature of marriage". The court was adjudicating a case where a man, who was already married, was being sue by another woman.[88]

In June 2012, Delhi High Court said that a woman who is educated and capable of maintaining herself, but has quit her job voluntarily is not entitle to alimony. The verdict was given in case where a woman challenged a lower court's decision to not grant her any alimony. The High Court pointed out that the woman was capable of earning 50,000 per month but was choosing to remain unemployed, and denied any alimony to her. However, the court ordered the husband to pay 10,000 towards child support.[89]

Proposed laws[edit]

The proposed Marriage Laws (Amendment) Bill, 2010 will allow courts to decide compensation to wife and children from the husband's inherited and inheritable property. The bill has provision for "irretrievable breakdown" of marriage where both parties must have lived apart for 3 years before filing for divorce. The bill also allows the wife to oppose the dissolution of a marriage if it will leave her in financial hardship.[90]

The SIFF has protested against the Marriage (Amendment) Bill 2010. According to Rajesh Vakharia, President of SIFF, this bill will encourage divorce and will be expensive to husbands, as they would have to part with their hard earned assets.[91] He has called this bill a regressive move, and has stated that it jeopardizes the financial and social security of a man.[92] He has pointed out that as most men marry after becoming financially secure, the possibility of losing their hard-earned wealth and property will discourage men from marriage and feed the gynophobia in the society.[93]

Kumar V. Jahgirdar, founder and president of the Bangalore-based Children’s Rights Initiative for Shared Parenting (CRISP), has said that the alimony should be decided on the basis of how many years the couple have spent as married. He pointed out that the law doesn't allow the husband to refute the wife's claims. He also argued that it is based on a flawed assumption that the children are always best cared for by their mother. He has also stated that it violates the Article 14 of the Constitution. Swarup Sarkar, founder and member of Save Family Foundation, said that the suggestions offered by them to the Law Minister and the parliamentary committee were ignored.[94][95]

Derek O'Brien, member of All India Trinamool Congress political party, has argued that this law empowers women at the expense of men. He proposed that this law should be made gender neutral by using the word "spouse" instead of "wife" or "husband". Arvind Kumar Singh of Samajwadi Party said that the law has potential for misuse like the anti-dowry laws and added that it treats men as being responsible for divorces. Vandana Chavan of Nationalist Congress Party has pointed out that the bill was unfair as nowadays, many women earn equal to or more than their husbands.[96]

Child custody laws[edit]

In India, child custody is granted to the father only if the mother is mentally unstable or has left home leaving behind the child.[97] At present, the matter custody in case of divorce is governed by two laws: Guardians and Wards Act, 1890 and Hindu Minority and Guardianship Act, 1956. But, both laws do not have any provisions for shared parenting or joint custody.[98]

An organisation named Children’s Rights Initiative for Shared Parenting (CRISP) has demanded better child access laws and has called the current custodial laws gender-biased.[99] It has demanded amendments to the Guardians and Wards Act be amended to make shared parenting mandatory.[97]

Swarup Sarkar of Save Family Foundation has speculated that now two out of three Indian couples actively share parenting. Kumar Jahagirdar, president of CRISP, has noted a growth in men who are the primary caregivers in the family.[100]

Notable verdicts[edit]

On 12 September 2013, the Karnataka High Court granted equal custody of a 12 year old boy to both parents. The court ordered that the boy to remain with his mother from July 1 to December 31 of every year and to remain with his father from January 1 to June 30, until the child reaches the age of majority. Both the parents were also given visitations rights on Saturday and Sunday, when the child would be with the other parent. The child was also allowed to call or video chat with the other parent when in custody of one. The court also ordered both parents to bear the child's education and other expenses equally.[101][102]

Proposed shared parenting law[edit]

In November 2014, the Law Commission of India started a study and released a consultation paper on its website seeking views from the public on proposed guidelines for joint custody and shared parenting. The commission expects to complete the study by January 2015 and present the findings to the government for amendments to the law by the 2015 budget session of the Parliament.[98]

Domestic violence laws[edit]

The Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act 2005 primarily provides protection to wives and female live-in partners from domestic violence carried out by husbands, male live-in partners or their relatives. Domestic violence includes abuse or treat of abuse, whether physical, sexual, verbal, emotional or economic.[103]

Swarup Sarkar of Save Indian Family has argued that Domestic Violence Act should be made gender neutral.[104] He also termed the law as legal terrorism.[54]

Sexual harassment laws[edit]

The Sexual Harassment of Women at Workplace Act 2013 is not gender neutral.[105] Rajesh Vakahria, a member of SIFF, has pointed out the bill was originally gender neutral until Ministry of Women and Child Development and some NGOs intervened and changed the name. He said that it was an outdated concept to consider that only women suffer from sexual harassment.[106]

Khasi tribe[edit]

The Khasi tribe in Meghalaya state is matrilinear. The children take the mother's surname. The sons have no rights to property. A family without an heir usually adopts a girl. After marriage, men move into their wives' houses. Their way of life is protected under the Khasi Social Custom of Lineage Act of 1997. The men in this tribe have started a men's liberation movement called Syngkhong Rympei Thymmai (Home Hearth Restructured). It was founded on 14 April 1990. A previous movement started in the early 1960s died out due to lack of support and one of their meetings being attacked by hundreds of women bearing knives. The current movement claims to have 2000 members. According to them, due to lack of responsibility, boys are dropping out of schools, men are resorting to drugs and alcohol and dying before reaching middle age.[107][108][109]


Phanisai Bhardwaj, a Lok Satta Party candidate in Karnataka assembly polls, was found out to be a member of Centre for Men’s Rights, against the Section 498a of IPC and reservations in jobs or education, after he made a post on Facebook in April 2013. He faced a protest campaign against him on the blogosphere, which called the Lok Satta Party "anti-women" and "anti SC/ST". Jayprakash Narayan, founder of Lok Satta Party, called Bhardwaj's position on women "unacceptable". Later, Bhardwaj was asked to withdraw his nomination.[110]

Jyotsna Chatterjee, member of the Joint Women’s Programme which was involved in drafting the Domestic Violence Act 2005, has responded to the men's rights movement by stating that compared to the men who have faced the misuse of the anti-dowry law, many more women have suffered. She added that there has been no change in the way society sees women and they are still treated as second-class citizens.[54]

Indira Jaising has argued that men don't need to be covered under the domestic violence act as they have several other rights to appeal with, but women need special rights to defend their lives in a male dominated society.[111] She has also rejected the view that anti-dowry law and domestic violence laws are being misused.[112] She has also claimed that the high acquittal under dowry cases occurs because prosecutions are conducted improperly and people are encouraged to settle out of court.[113]

Flavia Agnes has opposed the shared parenthood law consultation paper floated by the Law Commission of India by claiming that it was being lobbied by men's rights organisations and that it would erode women and children's rights.[114]

Ranjana Kumari of the Centre for Social Research has criticized the Supreme Court's judgement which said that anti-dowry laws are being misused and stopped arrests based on FIRs.[115] She said that if laws are being misused then the law enforcement should be held responsible.[116] She has also expressed disagreement over demands to amend the anti-dowry law, pointing out that dowry deaths are still occurring in India.[67]

Indrani Sinha of Sanlaap has said that the anti-dowry cannot be easily misused. She said that if the husband and his family are innocent then they should go to the police before the wife the file a complaint.[117]

Maneka Gandhi, the Minister for Women & Child Development, has also opposed any changes to the existing dowry laws.[118]


  • Save Indian Family Foundation[104]
  • All India Front Against Persecution by Wives (Akhil Bharatiya Patni Atyachar Virodhi Morcha)[3][104]
  • My Nation[104]
  • Child's Right and Family Welfare[12]
  • Purush Hakka Sanrakshan Samiti[4]
  • Gender Human Rights Society[119]
  • Save Family Foundation [119]
  • Confidare Research: A Bangalore-based organisation.[120]
  • Men's Rights Association[121]
  • Karnataka Rajya Purushara Rakshana Samithi: A Karnataka-based organisation that is opposing abuse of marriage laws.[122][123]
  • Purusha Commission: An organisation based in Odisha which is demanding a State Commission for Men.[124][125]

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