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'''NoFap''' is a website and community forum that serves as a [[support group]] for those who wish to avoid [[pornography]] and [[masturbation]].<ref>{{cite news|last1=Cowell|first1=Tom|title=No fapping, please, it's making us ill|url=https://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/thinking-man/10288240/No-fapping-please-its-making-us-ill.html|accessdate=22 May 2015|work=[[The Daily Telegraph|The Telegraph]]|publisher=[[Telegraph Media Group]]|date=17 September 2013|location=London, England}}</ref><ref>{{cite news|last1=McMahon|first1=Tamsin|title=Will quitting porn improve your life?: A growing 'NoFap' movement of young men are saying no to porn and masturbation|url=http://www.macleans.ca/society/life/can-swearing-off-porn-improve-your-life/|accessdate=22 May 2015|work=[[Maclean's]]|publisher=Rogers Media|date=20 January 2014|location=Toronto, Canada}}</ref> Its name comes from the slang term ''[[wikt:fap#Etymology 2|fap]]'', referring to [[male masturbation]]. Reasons for this avoidance vary by individual, and include [[Religious views on masturbation|religious]] and moral reasons, self-improvement, and some physical beliefs which are not supported by mainstream medicine. The group's views and efforts to combat [[pornography addiction]] have been criticized by neurologists, other medical professionals, and journalists, as simplistic and out-dated. |
'''NoFap''' is a website and community forum that serves as a [[support group]] for those who wish to avoid [[pornography]] and [[masturbation]].<ref>{{cite news|last1=Cowell|first1=Tom|title=No fapping, please, it's making us ill|url=https://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/thinking-man/10288240/No-fapping-please-its-making-us-ill.html|accessdate=22 May 2015|work=[[The Daily Telegraph|The Telegraph]]|publisher=[[Telegraph Media Group]]|date=17 September 2013|location=London, England}}</ref><ref>{{cite news|last1=McMahon|first1=Tamsin|title=Will quitting porn improve your life?: A growing 'NoFap' movement of young men are saying no to porn and masturbation|url=http://www.macleans.ca/society/life/can-swearing-off-porn-improve-your-life/|accessdate=22 May 2015|work=[[Maclean's]]|publisher=Rogers Media|date=20 January 2014|location=Toronto, Canada}}</ref> Its name comes from the slang term ''[[wikt:fap#Etymology 2|fap]]'', referring to [[male masturbation]]. Reasons for this avoidance vary by individual, and include [[Religious views on masturbation|religious]] and moral reasons, self-improvement, and some physical beliefs which are not supported by mainstream medicine.{{citation needed}} The group's views and efforts to combat [[pornography addiction]] have been criticized by neurologists, other medical professionals, and journalists, as simplistic and out-dated.{{citation needed}} |
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==Founding== |
==Founding== |
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Type of site | Private |
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URL | www www |
Registration | Optional |
Launched | June 20, 2011 | (subreddit)
Current status | Active |
NoFap is a website and community forum that serves as a support group for those who wish to avoid pornography and masturbation.[1][2] Its name comes from the slang term fap, referring to male masturbation. Reasons for this avoidance vary by individual, and include religious and moral reasons, self-improvement, and some physical beliefs which are not supported by mainstream medicine.[citation needed] The group's views and efforts to combat pornography addiction have been criticized by neurologists, other medical professionals, and journalists, as simplistic and out-dated.[citation needed]
Founding
NoFap was founded in June 2011 by Pittsburgh web developer Alexander Rhodes after reading a thread on Reddit about a 2003 Chinese study[note 1] which found that men who refrain from masturbation for seven days experience a 145.7% spike in testosterone levels on the seventh day. This hit the front page of a popular forum on Reddit.[3] The website states that some NoFap participants aim to "...improve their interpersonal relationships", do a "challenge of willpower - to seize control of your sexuality and turn it into superpowers", but always with the goal of being able to "abstain from PMO (porn/masturbation/orgasm)."[4] While the website is most commonly associated with men seeking to quit porn and reduce masturbation, there are a minority of females who are users of the website as well, who are nicknamed "Femstronauts"; Rhodes has estimated that five percent of participants are women.[4]
The expression "fap" is an onomatopoeic Internet slang term for male masturbation that first appeared in the 1999 web comic Sexy Losers to indicate the sound of a male character masturbating.[4]
Alexander Rhodes appears in the documentary written and directed by Nicholas Tana called Sticky: A (Self) Love Story, in which he discusses his findings and his opinions about masturbation.[5] After this, Rhodes created NoFap as a "subreddit" forum community on Reddit. The endeavour is sometimes referred to as fapstinence.[6][7][8]
NoFap.com
Users on NoFap's subreddit more than tripled in number in two years, leading Rhodes to build an off-Reddit forum at NoFap.com and begin other plans to better serve the website's fast-growing factions in Brazil, Germany, and China.[9] NoFap.com is a forum-style website where individuals who have committed to abstain from pornography and/or masturbation for a period of time can talk about their experiences and engage in challenges to help them recover. NoFap.com is the sister website of the Reddit-hosted NoFap community.[10] NoFap.com sells "premium memberships" and "store merchandise".
Membership
Demographics
A 2020 study reports that "virtually all NoFap followers (99%) are male".[11] The membership of NoFap ranges from atheists, like founder Rhodes, to fundamentalist Christians.[12][13] Women are also a part of NoFap,[12] although the community is sometimes viewed to be a part of the androsphere.[14] The users of the website call themselves "Fapstronauts."[15][16][3] Some correspondents have nicknamed NoFap's community members as NoFappers[17][18][19] fapstinent,[20] or no-fappers.[21] Some self-described porn addicts seek out NoFap for help,[3] while others join the website for the challenge or to improve their lives and interpersonal relationships.[3]
Beliefs
The overwhelming goal of members of the NoFap forums is to stop masturbation entirely, and that this goal is due to their "perception of masturbation as unhealthy".[11] After abstaining from porn and masturbation for a period of time, some of NoFap's users claim to experience various improvements in physical and mental health.[7] Some NoFap users say their brains were warped by porn, at the expense of real relationships.[22]
NoFap hosts a wide variety of different opinions on sexual health, and supports users with various goals as long they are trying to improve their sexual health.[23] NoFap techniques are sometimes cited as a self-improvement method by members of the manosphere,[24] and by others as a way to counter the effects of "death grip syndrome",[25] an issue with penis sensitivity which some men attribute to overly aggressive masturbation.
Reception
Robert Weiss of The Huffington Post sees NoFap as part of a tech backlash.[26] The endeavor has also been criticized as generating embarrassing side effects such as prolonged or unwanted erections in men or an excessive libido.[27] The medical consensus is that there is no harm from normal masturbation practices.[28][29] According to the Merck Manual of Diagnosis and Therapy, "It is considered abnormal only when it inhibits partner-oriented behavior, is done in public, or is sufficiently compulsive to cause distress."[30] In the US, masturbation was a diagnosable psychological condition until DSM II (1968).[31] The American Medical Association declared masturbation as normal by consensus in 1972.[32] Masturbation does not deplete one's body of energy[33] or produce premature ejaculation.[34]
Introductory psychology textbook authors Coon, Mitterer and Martini passingly mentioning NoFap, speak of pornography as a "supernormal stimulus" but use the model of compulsion rather than addiction.[35]
Criticism
Several journalists have criticized NoFap after having participated in its programs.[36][37][38] According to Elizabeth Brown, neuroscientists have questioned some of the claims made by people on NoFap.[39]
While claiming to be science-based, a 2020 study found that the more that NoFap followers believed that they should abstain from masturbation, the more they also reported "lower trust in science".[11] This belief has been widely criticized by scientists for decades, as primarily positive effects result from masturbation.[40]
Psychologist David J. Ley wrote: "I'm not in opposition to them, but I do think their ideas are simplistic, naive and promote a sad, reductionistic and distorted view of male sexuality and masculinity".[41] Ley criticizes NoFap supporters as amateurs who are using "bad data" and "extrapolations on weak science to argue that porn has a disproportionate effect on the brain" and claim that porn use causes erectile dysfunction.[41] Ley has stated that the website is a continuation of the anti-masturbation movements from the past, such as Swiss doctor Samuel Tissot's 18th-century claims that masturbation was an illness that "weakened the male spirit" and led to immorality; American doctor Benjamin Rush, who claimed that masturbation caused blindness; and W.K. Kellogg, who developed corn flakes as part of his anti-masturbation efforts.[41]
Social psychologists Taylor and Jackson, who analyzed the content of NoFap forums, concluded in their study that some NoFap participants not only rejected pornography, but also radical feminist critiques of pornography. They also stated that members of NoFap frequently utilized and redeployed familiar hegemonic masculine discourses (e.g. men as dominant seekers of pleasure and women as the ‘natural’ suppliers of this pleasure), in turn reproducing societal expectations of gendered sexual dominance and submission.[42]
In 2016, research by neuroscientist Nicole Prause contradicted the NoFap belief that pornography use and erectile dysfunction were linked, which was reported in The Guardian in relation to the NoFap movement.[43]
The Guardian writer Katie Bishop described the role of women in the NoFap movement, finding "there is a darker side to NoFap. Among the reams of Reddit discussions and YouTube videos, a fundamentally misogynistic rhetoric regularly emerges" [44]
In 2017, an Independent article called "Inside the Community of Men Who Have Given Up Porn" noted that an alternative subreddit, /r/pornfree, is different from ‘NoFap’ as members abstain from pornography but not necessarily masturbation.[45] Another Independent article, from 2018, noted the less 'extreme' nature of /r/pornfree compared to /r/nofap.[46]
See also
- Effects of pornography
- Opposition to pornography
- Sexual abstinence
- Sex Addicts Anonymous
- Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous
- Sexaholics Anonymous
- Postorgasmic illness syndrome
- No Nut November
Notes
- ^ The thread ("TIL when men don't masturbate for 7 days their testosterone levels increase by 145.7%. • r/todayilearned". reddit.) discussed Jiang M, Xin J, Zou Q, Shen JW (2003). "A research on the relationship between ejaculation and serum testosterone level in men". J. Zhejiang Univ. Sci. 4 (2): 236–240. doi:10.1631/jzus.2003.0236. PMID 12659241.
References
- ^ Cowell, Tom (17 September 2013). "No fapping, please, it's making us ill". The Telegraph. London, England: Telegraph Media Group. Retrieved 22 May 2015.
- ^ McMahon, Tamsin (20 January 2014). "Will quitting porn improve your life?: A growing 'NoFap' movement of young men are saying no to porn and masturbation". Maclean's. Toronto, Canada: Rogers Media. Retrieved 22 May 2015.
- ^ a b c d Love, Dylan (2013-11-29). "Inside NoFap, The Reddit Community For People Who Want To Be 'Masters Of Their Domain'". Business Insider: Australia. Retrieved 10 June 2015.
- ^ a b c Love, Dylan (28 November 2013). "To Be 'Masters Of Their Domain'". www.businessinsider.com. Business Insider. Retrieved 3 August 2019.
- ^ "Sticky: A (Self) Love Story: Trailer 1".
- ^ "In Defense of Masturbation".
- ^ a b Gander, Kashmira (5 October 2016). "A man who gave up masturbation for 700 days says it gave him superpowers". The Independent. Retrieved 4 April 2020.
- ^ "The Grumpy Ghey: The Fap Flap". 2017-05-24.
- ^ Eck, Ian. "The Men Who Would Not Wank". SanFrancisco Magazine. Retrieved 27 June 2015.
- ^ Israelsen-Hartley, Sara. "Adolescent addiction: When pornography strikes early". Deseret News. Retrieved 27 June 2015.
- ^ a b c Zimmer, F.; Imhoff, R. (2020). "Abstinence from Masturbation and Hypersexuality" (PDF). Archives of Sexual Behavior. 49: 1333–1343.
- ^ a b Blair, Leonardo. "Christians Find Help for Porn, Masturbation Addiction Through 'NoFap' Community Started on Reddit by 24-Y-O Web Developer". The Christian Post. Retrieved 10 June 2015.
- ^ McMurry, Evan (2014-03-13). "9 hilarious ways the religious right tried to eradicate masturbation". salon.com. Retrieved 27 June 2015.
- ^ "Il marketing del rimorchio". The Vision. July 27, 2018.
- ^ Hall, Lex (26 December 2016). "Internet porn abounds but 'no fappers' rise to the occasion". The Australian.
- ^ McMahon, Tamsin (20 January 2014). "Will quitting porn improve your life?". Maclean's.
- ^ "Archived copy". Archived from the original on 2017-03-12. Retrieved 2017-03-10.
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- ^ "Subscribe to the Australian | Newspaper home delivery, website, iPad, iPhone & Android apps".
- ^ Taylor, Kris, and Sue Jackson. "‘I want that power back’: Discourses of masculinity within an online pornography abstinence forum." Sexualities 21.4 (2018): 621-639.
- ^ EST, Kastalia Medrano On 11/13/17 at 3:39 PM (November 13, 2017). "Can not masturbating for a month give you 'superpowers?' The men doing No Nut November sure hope so". Newsweek.
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: CS1 maint: numeric names: authors list (link) - ^ Taylor, K.; Jackson, S. (2018). "'I want that power back': Discourses of masculinity within an online pornography abstinence forum". Sexualities. 21 (4): 621–639. doi:10.1177/1363460717740248.
- ^ Subedar, Anisa (June 24, 2017). "The online groups of men who avoid masturbation". BBC News. BBC. Retrieved September 23, 2017.
NoFap' is an organisation that supports its users regardless of what their goals might be as long as they're trying to improve their sexual health and live their sexual habits in a way that they want to," he says, pointing out that abstinence is not the ultimate aim of all participants. "We don't have a unified goal. Some people want to masturbate some people don't want to masturbate - it hosts a wide variety of people with different viewpoints.
- ^ Hilton Jr, Donald L. "Clinical Associate Professor Department of Neurosurgery University of Texas Health Sciences Center at San Antonio."
- ^ Infante, Scott Wayne. A Systematic Review of the Psychological, Physiological, & Spiritual Effects of Pornography on Males. Trevecca Nazarene University, 2018.
- ^ Weiss, Robert (2013-05-19). "Is 'No Fap' Movement Start of Tech Backlash?". Huff Post. Retrieved 27 June 2015.
- ^ Harrison, Alexandra (2014). "Nudge, Don't Thrust: The Application of Behavioral Law and Economics to America's Porn Addiction". Texas Review of Law and Politics. 19: 337.
- ^ Coon, Dennis; Mitterer, John O. (2014). "11. Gender and Sexuality". Introduction to Psychology: Gateways to Mind and Behavior (14 ed.). Cengage Learning. p. 363. ISBN 978-1-305-54500-7.
Is there any way that masturbation can cause harm? Seventy years ago, a child might have been told that masturbation would cause insanity, acne, sterility, or other such nonsense. "Self-abuse," as it was then called, has enjoyed a long and unfortunate history of religious and medical disapproval (Caroll, 2013). The modern view is that masturbation is a normal sexual behavior (Hogarth & Ingham, 2009). Enlightened parents are well aware of this fact. Still, many children are punished or made to feel guilty for touching their genitals. This is unfortunate because masturbation itself is harmless. Typically, its only negative effects are feelings of fear, guilt, or anxiety that arise from learning to think of masturbation as "bad" or "wrong." In an age when people are urged to practice "safer sex," masturbation remains the safest sex of all.
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Stengers and Van Neck follow the illness to its fairly abrupt demise; they liken the shift to finally seeing the emperor without clothes as doctors began to doubt masturbation as a cause of illness at the turn of the twentieth century. Once doubt set in, scientists began to accumulate statistics about the practice, finding that a large minority and then a large majority of people masturbated. The implications were clear: if most people masturbated and did not experience insanity, debility, and early death, then masturbation could not be held accountable to the etiology that had been assigned it. Masturbation quickly lost its hold over the medical community, and parents followed in making masturbation an ordinary part of first childhood and then human sexuality.
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Finally, the American medical community pronounced masturbation as normal in 1972 American Medical Association publication, Human Sexuality (Rowan, 2000).
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