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In human sexuality, the terms top, bottom, and versatile describe roles during sexual intercourse, particularly among gay and bisexual men. A top is a person who penetrates, a bottom is one who receives penetration, and a versatile engages in both activities. These terms may be elements of self-identity that indicate an individual's usual preference, but might also describe broader social, psychological, and/or sexual identities.[1]

Top, bottom, and versatile are also used in BDSM to describe similar—but distinct—BDSM identities and practices.

Top

The man on the right is the "top" and the man on the left is the "bottom"

A top is a person who engages in the penetrative role in sexual intercourse with his penis during anal sex and oral sex.[1] Top is also used as a verb meaning "to penetrate another." Top may also describe a broader personal identity involving dominance in a romantic and/or sexual relationship; however, this stipulation is not a requisite element of being a top.

Several related terms exist. A total top is one who assumes an exclusively penetrative role for both oral and anal sex. A total top by definition never assumes a receptive role for either oral or anal sex. A power top is one noted for their great skill and/or aggressiveness in topping. A service top is one who tops under the direction of an eager bottom. A versatile top is one who prefers to top but who bottoms occasionally. An oral top by definition does not engage in anal sex and is the exclusively penetrative partner during oral sex.[2] The terms penetrative partner or giver are synonyms of top created to describe the act of penetrating without implying non-egalitarian relations among participants.

Trevor Hart of the Center for Disease Control and Prevention found in the 2003 publication of The Journal of Sex Research that self-identified tops were indeed vastly more likely to act as the penetrative partner. The study also found that a top is also more likely to act as the penetrative partner in other sexual activities, such as oral sex and sex toy play.[3]

Bottom

A bottom is someone who receives penetration during intercourse, usually through the anus during anal sex.[1] Bottom is also used as a verb meaning "to be penetrated by another, whether anally or orally." Bottom may also describe a wider social context of submission within a romantic and sexual relationship, although this element does not apply to all people who prefer to bottom.

A total bottom is someone who assumes an exclusively passive or receptive role during anal or oral intercourse. A power bottom is someone who aggressively enjoys being the receptive partner. A versatile bottom is one who prefers to bottom but who tops occasionally.[4] The term receiver or receptive partner may be preferred by some. An oral bottom (alternatively described as being the "oral active" partner) is the exclusively receptive partner in oral sex, providing the penetrative partner, or oral top (alternatively described as being the "oral passive" partner), with unreciprocated fellatio and irrumatio.

The bottom is often more at risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) than the top.[citation needed]

Versatile

Versatile, also known as switching, refers to a person who enjoys both topping and bottoming, or being dominant and submissive, and may alternate between the two in sexual situations.[1][5][6] Flip-flop commonly describes switching from top to bottom during one sexual encounter between two men.[7] Both participants penetrate the other and get penetrated.

Versatility is a concept of lifestyle.[8] Most men who have sex with men do not fit the gay stereotypes.[9] They are neither effeminate nor openly gay.[10] "In large cities in the United States, gay men are for the most part expected to be versatile, not only in top versus bottom roles (if any) but also in the choice of particular acts (e.g., oral, anal, masturbatory)."[11] Versatility though is not limited to the simple acts of oral and anal penetration, but also includes the splitting of duties and responsibilities in the relationship.[9]

The reciprocal scenario, where both men take turns fucking each other, is often exercised as a celebration of equality. What sets this scenario apart from the others is the versatility of the men involved. Versatility is a unique and important feature of male anal sex. Some men consider it liberating; (...) Versatility to them is akin to speaking two different languages. It requires a special kind of playfulness, creativity, curiosity, and coordination.

— Steven G. Underwood, Gay Men and anal eroticism: tops, bottoms, and versatiles, Harrington Park Press 2003

According to some, living a versatile life style implies a certain openness to new things and an opposition to labels, stereotypes and generalizations. Therefore this concept differs from heterosexual relationships where sexual compatibility does not begin with guessing who will end up as top or bottom.[1] In self descriptions of men seeking sex with other men they may refer to themselves as a versatile top or versatile bottom in addition to other commonly used terms.

A 2009 Austrian study on gay pornography has shown that at least 82.4% of all men performing in the male porn industry are versatile at one point or the other during their career. In this study, the performances of 5,556 actors have been considered. 10.8% performed only in the top role, 6.8% only as bottoms. The study also found that the actor with the larger penis was more likely to act as the top.[12]

Versatility is a common theme of erotic artist Tom of Finland.[13]

Role vs. position

"Top," "bottom," and "versatile," as used in regards to sex between males, refer specifically to penetration role, regardless of the physical positioning during sex.[14] For example, in positions where the inserting partner lies on his back and the receptive partner straddles the inserting partner, the inserting partner is still considered to assuming the "top" role, even though he is positioned on the bottom (and vice-versa). When used in reference to heterosexual sex, the terms top, bottom, and versatile usually refer only to position and not to penetrative role.

Prevalence

No scientific study has ever been conducted as to what percentage of the gay and bisexual male population prefers any given role. The popular assumption is that the majority prefer to bottom and that those that prefer to top are in the minority. A tally of 55,464 profiles on gay.com from the United States showed that 26.46% preferred top, while 31.92% preferred bottom, and the largest group (41.62%) preferred versatile. The preferences seemed to vary by state, however. In Wyoming, for example, 16% preferred top, 44% preferred bottom, and 40% preferred versatile. In West Virginia, tops outnumbered bottoms by a slim margin (32% top, 29% bottom, and 39% versatile). In Oregon, "versatile" profiles made up nearly half (48.42%).[15]

In BDSM

Main articles: Top (BDSM), Bottom (BDSM), and Switch (BDSM)

In BDSM, the terms top, bottom, and switch are related, but BDSM-distinct phenomenon. BDSM seems to have adopted and derived these terms as loan words from gay culture.[citation needed]

See also

References

Notes
  1. ^ a b c d e Steven Gregory Underwood (2003). Gay men and anal eroticism: tops, bottoms, and versatiles. Psychology Press. p. 225. ISBN 1-56023-375-3, 9781560233756. Retrieved 2011-12-02. {{cite book}}: Check |isbn= value: invalid character (help)
  2. ^ Versatile Top. Gaylife.about.com (2012-01-01). Retrieved on 2012-01-09.
  3. ^ Bering, Jesse. "Top Scientists Get to the Bottom of Gay Male Sex Role Preferences". Scientific American. Retrieved 2011-01-20.
  4. ^ Versatile Bottom. Gaylife.about.com (2012-01-01). Retrieved on 2012-01-09.
  5. ^ Goodreau, SM; Peinado, J; Goicochea, P; Vergara, J; Ojeda, N; Casapia, M; Ortiz, A; Zamalloa, V; Galvan, R (2007). "Role versatility among men who have sex with men in urban Peru". Journal of sex research. 44 (3): 233–9. doi:10.1080/00224490701443676. PMID 17879166.
  6. ^ "Männer, die sowohl passiven als auch aktiven Analsex praktizieren, nennt man versatile." Georg Pfau, Präventionsmedizin für den Mann, Linz 2009
  7. ^ Michael D. Smith, David W. Seal (2008). "Motivational Influences on the Safer Sex Behavior of Agency-based Male Sex Workers". Archives of Sexual Behavior. 37 (5): 845–53. doi:10.1007/s10508-008-9341-1. PMID 18288599.
  8. ^ Levine, Martin P. (1998). Gay Macho: The Life and Death of the homosexual Clone. New York: New York University Press. {{cite book}}: Unknown parameter |coauthors= ignored (|author= suggested) (help)
  9. ^ a b Jay, Karla (1979). The gay report: Lesbians and gay men speak out about sexual experiences and lifestyles. New York: Summit. ISBN 0-671-40013-4. {{cite book}}: Unknown parameter |coauthors= ignored (|author= suggested) (help)
  10. ^ Stangor, Charles (ed.) (2000). Stereotypes and Prejudice: Essential Readings. Philadelphia, Pa.: Psychology Press. ISBN 0-86377-588-8. {{cite book}}: |first= has generic name (help)
  11. ^ Human sexuality. An Encyclopedia, edited by Vern L. Bullough, Bonnie Bullough, New York, London 1994, p. 280 ISBN 0-8240-7972-8
  12. ^ Michelides, Christian: Männlichkeitskonstruktionen der Pornografie zur Jahrtausendwende, Wien 2009
  13. ^ Arell, Berndt; Mustola, Kati (2006). Tom of Finland: Ennennäkemätöntä – Unforeseen. Like. ISBN 952-471-843-X.
  14. ^ Topping or Bottoming – How To Know If You're A Top Or Bottom. Gaylife.about.com (2012-01-01). Retrieved on 2012-01-09.
  15. ^ • View topic – Best states for tops, bottoms, versatiles. Straightacting.com. Retrieved on 2012-01-09.
Bibliography
  • Dossie Easton, Janet W. Hardy. The New Topping Book. Greenery Press, 2003. ISBN 1-890159-36-0.
  • Person, Ethel S. / Terestman, Nettie / Myers, Wayne A. / Goldberg, Eugene L. / Salvadori, Carol: Gender differences in sexual behaviors and fantasies in a college population, 1989, erschienen in: Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy, Bd. 15, Nr. 3, 1989, P. 187–198
  • Janus, Samuel S. / Janus, Cynthia L., 1993 The Janus Report on Sexual Behavior, Wiley, New York
  • Charles Moser, in Journal of Social Work and Human Sexuality 1988, (7;1, P.43–56)


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